Creating Lasting Happiness Through Yoga
"When the restraints (non-attachment, truthfulness, non-stealing, moderation, non-greed) and Observances (purity, contentment, self-discipline, spiritual study, faith) are inhibited by perverse thoughts, the opposites should be thought of."
- Yoga Sutra, Book II, Verse 33
In traditional schools of Classical Yoga, an earnest student would spend a minimum of three years learning the practice of ethical living, as outlined by the Yoga Sutras in the form of the Yamas (Restraints) and Niyamas (Observances). To achieve these practices, students would spend their time reflecting on their behaviors in order to deepen their emotional understanding.
To bring full awareness to an emotion, one must attempt to go deeper to examine the issue beneath the emotion. This "going deeper" is not an easy process – it takes a lot of patience, fortitude, and a willingness to move beyond attachment to the emotion itself. A strong emotion, when carried over time, can become a limiting belief structure. Transmuting a negative emotion means cultivating the ability to focus on positive emotion in place of a negative one. In Yoga, we call this Practicing the Opposite.
There are seven major emotional states, and each has its opposite.
In this exploration, we will examine Despair and Hope, learn how to confront despair, and cultivate Hope.
Despair means "loss of hope, hopelessness," and Hope can be defined as "trust, reliance or to long for with expectation or belief in fulfillment." Looking at these definitions, we can see that despair and hope are two sides of the same coin: hope placed in a situation where results are unreliable soon turns to despair. Hope placed with spiritual perspective and detachment is also called dispassion.
Let's consider the concept of dispassion as it relates to the hope for good health. It is a normal thing that we all wish for good health for ourselves and others around us. When we have someone we care for who is ill, immediate care for their illness comes from doctors, nurses, etc. If we are sick, we do everything we can to get well. There is an underlying assumption of wellness, which is only viewed from the physical level. The holistic view of wellness looks at the spirit in tandem with the physical and psychological. The secret to ensuring the wellness of spirit is dispassion – creating happiness based on spiritual fulfillment over physical well-being.
One aspect of Yoga philosophy explains human experience through the Koshas. The Koshas are also called sheaths, or layers of reality. They include the physical body, the energetic body, the emotional body, the intellectual body, the bliss body, and the divine reality. They are all aspects of reality that can be experienced and remembered, and except for the divine reality, each one has qualities that are continually changing. The body changes every moment, energy levels are in a continual state of flux, and the stability of the mind is easily swayed from moment to moment. The experience of bliss is fleeting for most, but the divine reality (the Universe, God, Allah, Nature, however you define it for yourself) remains constant.
With the Koshas in mind, we can see how our best hope is for a level of dispassion from external results. This dispassion offers us hope for the realization of the ultimate reality.
This being said, hope is sometimes a necessary emotion, especially in a state of extreme despair. Some of the practices that Yoga offers for cultivating hope are pranayama (breathing exercises). Invigorating the body and mind and connecting through breath awareness lifts the mood and connects to the divine reality.
Meditation can also help us to cultivate the power of a concentrated mind and break through the inertia of feeling sad or disconnected. Other activities that increase hope are spiritual practices like singing, drumming, prayer, and worship. Refraining from negative self-talk, gossip, or even watching the news can be helpful. Studying scriptures, self-help books, or poetry may allow profound spiritual thoughts to penetrate the wisdom body.
In reality, when you are practicing dispassion, any activity that you do can connect you to the ultimate reality. This means that household chores, running errands, spending time with loved ones, going to work, and our hobbies can all be experienced as an expression of the divine.